There is no sound bigger than silence. Sound exists because of silence. So remember, in life if any person cannot understand your silence, he will never be able to understand your words.
Before you decide to love me, know that I will always love you and I mean it because I never learned how to unlove someone,
Before you decide to love me, know that I am very sensitive. At time I am moody too, so when I feel low, just don’t leave. Simply stay by my side and be with me.
Before you decide to love me, please understand that I will always be there for you, no matter how hard you try to push me away. I will not leave because my love for you is stronger than anything else.
Before you decide to love me, note that I am a person who loves long hugs, deep talks, long drives and warm cuddles.
Before you decide to love me, remember that I do not sparkle and shine. I trip over words and I over think. I don’t have it all figured out in my brains.
But I love hard, I love until I am empty and it’s pure and unadulterated.
When it comes to feelings, you may believe certain feelings are bad and some good. Remember that there are no good or bad feelings. We are emotional and have a broad range of feelings, which truly have a purpose. Feelings ought to be expressed or else suppressed emotions at times manifest themselves in quite an improper manner.
If there was only happiness, it would eventually lose its luster over time. So it is important to experience sadness and unhappiness as well so as to truly appreciate the beauty of it all. Without being aware of the dark sadness we would not be able to appreciate the light of happiness.
Feelings too have a life cycle. They take birth, bloom, they peak and then die off. But that is how it is. The sooner you accept it, the better. Even in couples, after a disagreement, there will be resentment and anger which is not expressed. If the underlying feelings remain unexpressed, it generally leads to a disproportionate disconnect. All the unexpressed feelings will eventually explode.
It is important that we allow ourselves to fully engage with our feelings. Even if you feel sad, challenge yourself to stay compassionate which will help you to widen your emotional bandwidth and normalize feelings like sadness, despair or anger.
It is very important to embrace your feelings. Close your eyes and let your emotions consume you, cover you like a blanket, warm you from the inside out. After all, it’s absolutely okay to feel your feelings.
So I just completed a hundred posts on WordPress. Initially when I joined WP, I was quite sceptical whether I would be able to write regularly and maintain the flow. Nevertheless, I am happy that eventually I was able to succeed. Writing is one such habit which makes you a lot more particular about yourself and brings in clarity of thoughts.
With a plethora of things to scribble, I myself didn’t realise that I had come such a long way. So, here I am raising a toast for my little offering to this big blogging world.
Finally, thanks to each and every one of you who are willing to read what I write. This journey would never have been so great without you people. So keep Reading & Supporting 🙂